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What does gaslighting actually look like?

Let's clear this up once and for all

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Rebecca and Claire
Aug 31, 2023
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Gaslighting is a bit like a seven step Korean skincare routine. It gets spoken about a lot, but only a few people can tell you what it actually entails.

It’s the difference between ‘No I didn’t’, and ‘No I didn’t, you psychopath’

I’ve heard people state how sick they are of hearing it, and I myself have cringed at its misappropriation many, many times.

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